After a breakup or divorce, many Pennsylvania parents find that a co-parenting arrangement is essential to a healthy family life. Shared custody arrangements are increasingly common in the US and reflect changing ideas on divorce and co-parenting. Although co-parenting can be challenging, it becomes easier if you follow a few essential tips or rules.

The LLF Law Firm Family Law Team is a firm of experienced child custody attorneys in Pennsylvania. If you need assistance creating a co-parenting plan or other custody issues, call the LLF Law Firm at 888-535-3686 or submit your details online, and we will promptly contact you.

Custody and Co-Parenting

Pennsylvania law recognizes various custody arrangements, including joint and sole legal custody and various physical custody arrangements. In many of these arrangements, parents will need to work together and co-parent their child. Co-parenting is more than just sharing major decisions about your child. It's about creating an environment of consistency and fostering better relationships with both parents. Effective co-parenting can significantly reduce conflict, benefiting all parties involved, especially the children.

The following five tips can help in developing an effective co-parenting relationship.

Establish Clear Rules of Communication

Effective communication is the cornerstone of successful co-parenting. Even if you're experiencing conflict with the other parent, it's crucial to maintain healthy communication. This involves establishing clear channels of communication, whether it's through text, emails, co-parenting apps, or scheduled calls. The key is to set and respect boundaries, regardless of the mode of communication you choose.

Keep the Focus on Your Child

Once you have established a healthy communication base, you can work together to co-parent your child. You may be able to formulate a parenting plan on your own or with the assistance of a mediator. On some issues, you may not be able to agree, and your attorney will help you decide how to proceed. Always try to keep your child's best interests at the forefront as you make these decisions.

Respect the Other Parent's Time With Your Child

Your child will spend time with the other parent, which may lead to scheduling conflicts. As much as you can, try not to schedule events during the other parent's time. Establish rules on calling and texting frequency and follow them, except in emergencies. Enjoy your time with your child and allow the other parent to do the same.

Plan Ahead for Holidays and Events

Some of the hardest issues in parenting occur during holidays, birthdays, and other special events. Parents should plan ahead for these events and be respectful of special events for the other parent. Compromise for special events such as family weddings or reunions.

Don't Argue or Communicate Through Your Child

Parents should avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the children or on social media. They should aim to minimize conflicts in the child's presence. It's also essential not to "talk through" your child or involve the child in communication between the parents.

How the LLF Law Firm Can Help

If you need help establishing a co-parenting plan in Pennsylvania, call the experienced attorneys at the LLF Law Firm. They have guided countless families through the co-parenting process to arrive at a place of security and peace of mind. Call the LLF Law Firm Family Law Team at 888-535-3686 or submit your details online, and we will contact you.